Surviving Scotland

Scotland is home to ancient castles, fascinating landscapes and vibrant cities. The country is part of the United Kingdom, yet it feels quite different from England and you will soon see why. Scots are passionate about their country, guarding its uniqueness and refusing to go along with English ideas. While cool and aloof externally, they are extremely sentimental about their family and their country. Overall Scots are free of class consciousness and social elitism, except in religion. They have a keen, subtle sense of humour and value generosity, respectability. They are an independent and proud people who have their own culture and customs. Here are some tips to make travelling in Scotland easy.

 

1. Don't confuse Scotland with England; the whole country is properly referred to as Great Britain or the United Kingdom. Scottish people usually dislike being referred to as English.

2. Don't refer to the people of Scotland as Scotch. They are Scottish or Scots; Scotch is normally used only of food (e.g. Scotch egg) or drink (e.g. whisky).

3. Don't think of Scottish people as being mean, wearing kilts, eating haggis, and playing the bagpipes. This is a stereotyped image that is far from the truth.

4. Don’t talk about Northern Ireland, politics and religion.

5. Don’t use first names, unless you are asked to.

6. Avoid wearing stripe ties of any kind. This is because British "regimental" neckties appear in a variety of striped patterns, each representing a different institution, such as a public school or military unit. Your wearing a tie that resembles a striped regimental pattern could be perceived as a crass affectation.

7. Do not make fun of or ridicule kilts. They are a very important part of the Scottish heritage.

8. Talking too loudly in public is sometimes considered offensive and embarrassing. Avoid it.

9. Avoid excessive hand gestures and physical expressions, like back slapping and hugging.

10. Do not stand too close to another person or put your arm around someone's shoulder. They like certain amount of space.

11. Do not wear a hat indoors, especially men and specially in churches.

12. Do not burp, pick your nose, stare at anyone or spit in public. It is extremely un polite.

13. Do not ask personal or intimate questions.

14. Do not discuss business at dinner in someone's home unless the host initiates the conversation.

15. Do not keep your hands on your lap while dining. Do not keep your elbows on the table either.

16. Never eat off a knife when having a meal.

17. Do not send white lilies when you send flowers to anyone. They denote death.

18. Do not violate a queue. It is considered very rude to push ahead in a line.

19. Don't be insulted if someone calls you love, dearie, or darling. These are commonly used and not considered rude.

20. For women, do not cross your legs at the knees. It is improper. Crossing at ankles is acceptable.

21. Never try to sound British or mimic their accent.